There’s something about that first day of kindergarten that hits different. It’s the oversized backpack, the too-big sneakers, the tiny hand waving from the bus window. It’s not just a milestone—it’s a shift. For them. For you.
And if you’re like me, you’ve probably Googled “How to get my kid ready for kindergarten” more times than you care to admit. So here it is: the practical meets the emotional. Because getting ready isn’t just about school supplies—it’s about hearts (both big and small).
Visit Early and Often (If You Can)
If your school offers an open house, walk-through, or kindergarten preview day—go. Let your child see their classroom, meet the teacher, and explore the space. If not, even driving past the school or walking the playground can help build familiarity. Snap photos of the school, let them ask questions, and keep the conversation casual.
Practice the Routine Before the Big Day
Try doing a few “mock school mornings” the week before. Set an alarm. Pick out clothes. Pack a lunch. This helps them (and you) feel the rhythm. Even practicing putting on shoes, zipping backpacks, or opening lunch containers builds confidence.
Start adjusting bedtime and wake-up times a week or two in advance. Shift in 10–15 minute increments toward the school schedule so it doesn’t feel like a shock to their system on Day One.
Talk About the Feelings—Yours and Theirs
Your child might be excited. Or nervous. Or both. That’s normal—and so are your emotions. It’s okay if you cry in the car after drop-off. (We’ve all been there.) Let your child know it’s normal to miss home and still love school. Reassure them that their grownups always come back. Repeat it like a mantra.
You might find some comfort in writing a little love note or drawing a heart on their hand before they leave—something they can hold onto when the nerves sneak in. Even reading story books like The Kissing Hand or The Night Before Kindergarten helps!
Let Them Take the Lead on Some Choices
Picking out a backpack, choosing a snack, or helping to label their folders gives kids a sense of control and ownership. It’s not about being Pinterest-perfect—it’s about helping them feel ready, involved, and seen.
Keep Goodbyes Short and Steady
Whether it’s drop-off at the door, on the bus, or walking them into the classroom—make your goodbye short, sweet, and confident. Think: “I love you. You’ve got this. I’ll see you after school!” Your tone matters. If you look and sound steady, they’ll mirror that energy.
Remind Yourself: This Is Their Launchpad
This is where independence begins—in tiny ways. You’re not losing your baby. You’re watching them step into their world. And while that may come with a lump in your throat and some tissues in your purse, it also comes with pride. So much pride.
So take the first day photo. Pack the snack. Wipe the tears (theirs and yours). And know that this isn’t just a first day—it’s the start of something really, really good.
Here’s to all the kindergarten parents—we’re cheering you on, too.
