Going on a summer road trip with the kids almost always sounds more delightful than it actually is. You envision yourself sipping a crisp microbrew in a lounge chair while your kids frolic in the sand. But, most parents aren’t typically rewarded with this kind of happy vacation ending. Yes, many children are used to their routine and sleep schedule, so sometimes vacation puts them all out-of-whack. And we all know how that ends up. Our kids act tired and cranky. What’s worse is that this makes the parents all somehow work harder on vacation, leaving us drained by the time we get back home. But, with some pointers, I think that you can still have an enjoyable summer vacation with your little ones.
You just have to act smarter while on a road trip vacation, not harder. I hope these tips will help you soak in the summer sun with your kids this summer:
1. Prepare for the Road Trip
To prepare for the road trip, you basically need three things: snacks, dollar store activities, and technology. You know the kids will be hungry, so instead of stopping all of the time, feed them in the car. I also like to limit the drink intake (aka, never offer it to them) because I don’t want to stop for those who are potty-trained. Dollar store activities will keep them entertained for a little bit, too, but don’t feel badly if you have to whip out a good ole’ fashioned cartoon for them to watch on your way to the lake. Remember that once your kids get to your vacation site, they’ll forget about all that screen-time and will be ready to enjoy the fresh summer air.
2. Sleep
Sleep has always been my “thing” when it comes to raising my kids. I’m the Debbie Downer who always sticks to my kids’ early bedtime schedules. And you know what? I do it on vacation, too. I try to keep my kids’ sleep schedule the best that I can because they are so much happier that way. I remember strolling my little ones by the beach if I still wanted them to grab that nap if we were out and about. If you feel guilty for not letting them stay up late, think of it this way…wouldn’t you want to enjoy vacation well-rested, too? I also go out of my way to buy cheap blackout curtains to jimmy on the windows so the sun doesn’t get in. And of course, bring your little ones’ favorite blanket and stuffed animals to make them feel more comfortable while sleeping in an unusual place.
3. Break What Rules You’re Comfortable With
Summer vacation is to let loose a little bit, too. So, no, I don’t adhere to all of my strict rules—my kids have fun, too. Bend whatever rules you are comfortable with on some days so that the kids remember all of the fun perks that the summer trip brought. For me, I give in on the sweets. When we’re at the lake during the summer, we roast marshmallows and eat s’mores every single night after dinner. And even on occasion, I even let them stay up a little later, too.
4. Change of Scenery
Sometimes the toddlers get a little cranky and a change of scenery often helps. If they’re bored by the lake, for example, take them for a walk in the woods and see how many pinecones they can find. When you get back, you can count them together. Do your best to come up with different games or places to take your little ones.
5. Bring Help If You Can
I remember when my kids were babies and toddlers, it was nice to have a little help around while on vacation. So, my parents came up for a day or so to provide a little help (and sanity) for my husband and me. We even had a nice dinner out one night—a true vacation in itself. I know that not everyone can use this tip, but if you can, don’t feel badly asking your loved ones.
What are your vacationing tips? Share them with us!
